For a peaceful and happy home both husband and wife should remain on friendly terms. They should not be fighting with each other. As a husband it is your duty to keep your wife happy. Here are some tips that will help you in this regards.
Express Your Love For the Wife
Though you may be having lot of love and affection for your wife, it is important that you should express it also. You can occasionally say ‘ I love you’ to your wife on events like Valentine’s Day and on birthdays of the wife. Similarly you should frequently present lovely gifts to wife. This will revitalize love between both of you.
Don’t compete with your wife to show you are more intelligent
Every intelligent man knows that his wife is more intelligent anyway. You may be a Professor or chief executive officer of a large company, but your wife knows more about relationship. While you are trying to understand what’s going wrong in your relationship, your wife already knows the reasons for that and has already developed a strategy to solve the problem.
Be honest to your wife
It is all easy. When you don’t have secrets, you don’t have to be in a constant tension, control what you are saying, etc. As a result, you don’t have to spend your energy on all that stuff and rubbish. Instead, you may feel at ease next to your wife and discuss more interesting things with her. You can also use your energy for more pleasant and useful things, such as creativity and self-perfection.
Do Not Indulge in Controversies
Try to avoid controversial discussions with your wife. The discussion may start on minor issues but if let loose can turn into ugly altercations. This is detrimental to mutual cordial relations. Never yell at your wife. Keep your tone low and it will be reciprocated in the same manner.
Keep Your Home Neat and Clean
Your wife will often tell you o get some essential repairs done in the house. You should do the without delay. Rather you should be proactive in this regard. Do not wait for your wife to point out a repairable item. You should keep your eyes opens and remain alert. As and when you notice any repairable item, take initiative at your end and put it right. This will make your wife very happy. Similarly keep your house neat and clean. Do not litter your clothes, shoes and other items of use on the floors and beds.
Listen to Your Wife
Wives are in the habit of talking much. The husbands get bored when they keep listening to the same rhetoric time and again. But the key to success is that keep listening to your wife even if she is talking rot. This will convey a positive message to your wife that you really care for her and do not get bored with her.
Appreciate Your Wife on Her Deeds
Appreciation is a weapon with which you can win many battles. If your wife does something notable like cooking a variety dish, do appreciate her. This will enhance her morale and she will remain happy.
Do Not Waste Money
Wives are very particular about running the household in appropriate manner. This can be done only if both of you conserve your resources and do not waste money. Similarly wives always complain that their husbands are spendthrift. You should prove it wrong. Save money and tell your wife that you have saved this much money in the previous month. --> -->
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