A woman should seek a man who.....
1. Fears God. Some of the ways you can tell if a young man fears God is by his language and how he treats other people. Does he treat them with respect? If not, why not? We as human beings are made in the image of God, and respecting people ultimately shows a heart that reverences the One whom we reflect.
2. Is not afraid to love. That may sound like a no-brainer, but a lot of young men today are afraid of commitment, and the young lady ends up chasing the young man. What we need today are more young men who are not afraid of being real, authentic, and committed to a young lady in a relationship. We need men who are not afraid to love.
3. Can admit his faults, his mistakes, and when he's hurt you. Ruth Bell Graham made the statement, "A good marriage is the union of two forgivers." The reason is because you're going to hurt one another over and over again during your lifetime together. If you don't know how to ask for forgiveness and give forgiveness, you're never going to have a great marriage. The growth of your marriage will be stunted early on.
4. Can control his passions. We live in an age that has been invaded by pornography. The world sends a message that you can have it all and can satisfy yourself. I would want my daughters to date a young man who is fully in charge of his passion and can control his desire for the opposite sex.
5. Honors his parents. In the Ten Commandments, God tells us to honor our parents that our lives may be long and it may be well with us. Wouldn't you want to select a man whose life has a sense of well being in God's favor? I have heard it said that if you want to see how a young
man will treat you, see how he treats his mother. I'd take that a step further—how does he honor both his mother and his father? Does he speak well of them or is he angry with them? Does he refuse to speak about them at all? What's going on between a young man and his parents is very important.
6. Is in the process of becoming a leader who knows how to serve. Being the head of a home and having so much authority and responsibility demands a servant spirit and self-denial. If a young man doesn't know how to deny himself on behalf of another person, giving up his personal rights, goals, and dreams, I would question whether he would know how to create a family over a lifetime.
To my Single sisters, this is so profound. Quit trying to change someone, let God make a man out of him first. Let your heart be so lost in God that a man would have to seek him first to find you. You aren't married yet doesn't mean it won’t happen for you. That it’s taking longer than you ever imagined only means that God is preparing you for that which you deserve and you need to make the right and Godly choice. For those who didn't know before they married, God’s grace abides. It’s better to wait and do it right than to get into it and regret after. Stay beautiful, don’t settle, don’t be a victim of what society expects, Let Go and Let God.
WOMEN who refuse to wait on God for their husbands often find themselves tearfully waiting on God to change their husbands. If being SINGLE is a PROBLEM, you'll end up marrying a PROBLEM and it is then that you'll start seeing SINGLENESS as a solution AGAIN...Be patient with God.Good morning.
No comments :
Post a Comment