Sex:
Some people will think this is carnal, whether you like it
or not, sex can separate marriages. It has separated and it's still separating
homes. Don't be too spiritual not to have sex when you're legally married.
Learn how to have a mind blowing love ride (let's call sex love ride). Strike a
balance between spirituality and sexuality.
Sex is one of the divine gifts of God to be enjoyed in
marriage. It has spiritual implications this is why I keep saying to unmarried
youths to abstain from it and the married to run away from adultery. For as
many as you have intercourse with; a part of them pours into you and vice
versa. If they carry a spiritual problem you share out of it too because a
covenant has been initiated.
Do not punish your partner with this ride, it is too risky
to do. Women especially should take note of this likewise the men. Complaining
of being tired on recurring basis is dangerous. It's an invitation to
separation.
Fasting is a prerequisite for Christian growth, however it
should not be a yardstick to deprive your partner of their conjugal right.
1Cor. 7:5 'Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you
may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that
satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.'
God himself acknowledge the essence of this ride, that is
why He said there must be consensus in the place of fasting.
....."Therefore what God has joined together, let not man put asunder (separate)” (Matt.19:6)
Let's consider the concluding 'man' that can separate, I pray that the Holy Spirit will interprets this better to you.
Physical Appearance:
Don't stop dressing to look good, marriage is not a license
to shabby looks. Women especially should keep being appealing and not
appalling! Stop trying wrapper all day at home with your husband, let him see a
wife and not a grandma or mother. It's a turn off for men.
Like it or not, men are moved by sight. If your sight cannot move him towards you, it will repel him. Let him have a view of your curves at home. There are so many distractions outside, give him internal distractions too. For those that wears indecent wears on the street, especially the married, desist, wear it indoor for his sight alone.
Now I know you may be thinking how I got to know this, 'But
the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will
teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to
you'. (John 14:26:). Amen!!
Remember more importantly, it is the fear and the wisdom of
God that can keep your union forever. It's not your beauty as a woman because
your beauty does not make another woman ugly! Not your pocket as a man as this
does not make another man poor!
Check your union, be ready to avoid anything that can cause
separation and the Lord will help you in Jesus name.
Confession: I receive wisdom
Prayer: My father, my God, the grace to put in selfless
effort to make my courtship/marriage lovely I ask for oh Lord. Restore and revive
my courtship/marriage, keep my home from falling and help me not to fail you in
my home in Jesus name.
Oluwatoyin Adebowale
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